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Saturday,Apr 19 2008, 11:59:30 AMSo C@ll LOVE
Now-a-days people here especially in our country r committing the relation of love. In this case the maximum situation is -at first they just meet each other & den if dey found dat dey r preety/goodlooking/has sumthing positive vibes den dey started feeling dat he/she has something which attracts & make him/her feeling something different.but,dis is a infatuation.most of da ppl consider dis infatuation as 'LOVE'.& den dey propose,& if dey agree dey started calling dem boyfriend/girlfriend.in dis case dey found all da heavenly happiness.dis happiness last for some months when dey do not know eachother.den dey started doing dates,chat over phone/mobile etc.after dat when dey get almost all da information,dey started loosing curiosity.after dat dey started knowing da bad things of dat person.& as dey r commited,dey try to compromise & start doing sacrifice.when dey found dat no dis is not happening,i can't do dis kind of things. or he/she is not my type.den dey do break up.& some of dem who thinks dat after marriage everything will b fine(as da mentality doesn't match & dis will b changed after marriage)does da greatest mistake of life.which has no future.after marriage dey can't b able to change as dey r totally different in their nature.but some of dem live with dat position or some can't live & give divorce.so dis is da ultimate situation of dat so called sweet 'LOVE'(infatuation).coz a face/attitude can't b da basic thing of life.so,i think ppl should think thousand of time before commiting.& b4 doing 'LOVE' dey must hv 2 know each other as much as possible,specially da family,study,humanity,& lotz more.without knowing dis ppl shouldn't commit. but i m not saying dat dis happend all da time.some ppl clicks to each other.and dey can live happily forever.but da percentage is really very low.about 12%. but,to b in dat 12 , ppl do lotz of mistakes in life.b4 doing 'LOVE' ppl have to think practically nt emotionally.but,most of dem think emotionally.so ppl try to think practically b4 taking any decision. in total i wanna mean that "without knowing people can't fall in 'LOVE'." (a thought of mine)